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How does one succeed in life?

08.06.2025 10:57

How does one succeed in life?

That's it for today.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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What I need from you?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How do you confront your own family for not inviting you or leaving you out of things?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Do not set goals—set systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Why cant I feel anything in my sleep? I cannot even feel myself moving, breathing, and swallowing saliva! I cannot even hear anything, not even my alarm! Some people that I've been with says that I'm moving a lot in my sleep, how can I stop it?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Ask yourself:

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Does not procrastinate.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.